The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention.

Rachel Naomi Remen

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Circles of two

As humans, we are happier and healthier when we have someone to talk to when we need it.

If you simply want to connect, are newly diagnosed, or at a turning point, come in for a cup of tea and a circle of two. We’ll listen, help you in whatever way we can, or assist you in finding additional community resources. We can offer an attentive ear to whatever your day’s concern is—whether physical, emotional, mental, or spiritual.

There are three ways to connect:

  • Simply drop by Monday through Friday from 10 am to 2 pm.
  • Call and leave voicemail at 360.221.4101 or send email via this website and leave your name and phone number. A volunteer will get back to you.

Our volunteers are trained in peer-to-peer methods such as active listening and clear reflection. Circle hosts do not offer medical or other advice or therapy. The same circle agreements apply in circles of two: confidentiality; listening with compassion and curiosity; honoring each others’ respective paths; and pausing for a moment whenever necessary to catch our breath and bearings.

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Coming Together circles

Coming Together circles meet our deep need for human connection and are organized around our shared humanity. Topics arise organically from the group’s experience.

Our current Coming Together circles include:

Coming together

10-11:30 am
Healing Circles

This open circle always has room for more. It’s a safe place to explore whatever’s on your heart today and to bear witness to the courage of others as they do the same. Excitement, anxiety, joy, grief, optimism, relief, or something you’re still trying to describe are all welcome. Drop-in or contact Diana for more information.

Men’s Circle

2nd and 4th Mondays
7-8:30 pm
Healing Circles

This circle is currently full but we are opening a second circle. If you’d like to join, please contact James.

BIPOC Grannies

1st Sunday, 12-3

This circle is currently full. If you’re interested in joining, please let us know.

Learning circles

In learning circles, we share ideas and experiences around specific themes:

Relationship Learning & Healing Circle

2 – 3:30 PM
Healing Circles Langley

This circle supports you as you practice and improve important relationships. The circle will begin with a 20 – 30-minute learning circle followed by an hour healing circle. There will be 6 sessions to begin with, from Getting Ready to Listening and Speaking Effectively, to Discovering Solutions Together. You can also bring key questions you’d like to address. You can join at any time.

The circle is hosted by Paul Courteau.  Paul is a retired counseling psychologist and mediator with 40 years of experience helping people resolve conflicts.   Please call Paul at 406.381.0781 or email before attending.

Circle of Agreements & Practices

A learning circle designed to delve into the daily impact of living our five agreements and 3 practices. If you’re interested in co-hosting a circle in the future, this is a wonderful training opportunity. For more information, please contact Lynn.

Is there a topic you’d like to explore with others? Please let us know.